Date yourself........"Treat yo Self"

People love people who love themselves. No this does not mean you think "I, and I alone am the greatest man in the universe! NOOOOO!!!!!!! watch the below clip and we will continue 

TREAT YO SELF! It baffles my mind that guys will take a woman out to eat chinese food, yet never take themselves out to eat. I want you to take yourself out on a date. Many of you are RM's fresh off the mission and having some quality alone time with yourself is a priority. Plus think of it logically 

"If i can have a good time hanging out with myself.................I must think hanging out with myself is fun. 

If I'm fun............... then others must want to hang out with me................... If others want to hang out with me more people will be around me............according to my calculations 50% of all "people" are females. SOOOO by more "people" hanging out with you your chances of interacting with more females rises by 50%!!!! 

Many of you are laughing at this. However if you start loving yourself, and are passionate about who you are people are going to sense it. The next clip demonstrates that is you say something, and believe in something then other people will see it. Mr Haderford from Parks and Rec should be labeled a loon, or eccentric......and perhaps thats true. HOWEVER! He believes that what he is doing is awesome and it makes me think its awesome. Watch how him being ridiculous is hilarious and interesting. There is a deep confidence that he has behind what he is saying. 

Now Mr. Haderford does not have the best approaches towards women. I will say this all the women know that he is indeed hitting on them. So your homework for today is this. 

HW #1 TREAT YO SELF- to a dinner a walk a sandwich a man date i do not care. Go out all by yourself and have fun. Find ten things you like about yourself and compliment yourself. 

HW#2 Think about what your passionate about. I don't care if its world of warcraft as long as you love it and you are passionate about it. Now go out and discuss that topic with someone. You will find that most people will pay attention and see that you really care about that topic. you will notice people are interested in people who are interesting. I once had a shop teacher that was obsessed with collecting pencils. PENCILS! but honestly every kid in that class looked for rare pencils after that and started buying higher quality pencils because my shop teacher was....... PASSIONATE ABOUT IT! People love people who love things. NOT HATERS! So go out and discuss your passion with someone!

Till tomorrow DR. NCMO LOVEMASTER JAY