Getting Started- Responsible NCMO Relations/Body Language

I know I said that I would teach you two methods to score "ncmo". However whilst watching star wars and spuraticly making out with a girl (mainly while luke is talking). I was inspired to tell you all about the two sides of pickup power. Much like the star wars realm there is a "light side" and a "dark side". (Don't worry I'm not going to start referencing conference talks.)

DS= dark side
LS= light side

NCMO

• DS= making out with as many girls possible leading all of these women on. 
• Why is this bad? This is a player aproach. We wanna be Han Solo, James Bond, Harrison ford, Gregory peck style men. Do they lie to women? NO WAY! "All of those women know that those men are seeing several women at the same time. These are just "Real Men". And "Real Men" get women..............PERIOD. All women know this (but not some of these girlish whiny ho's).
• LS=Making out with few to several women.........But being honest with all of these women. Informing these women mid or pre makeout that this is a one time thing/Friends with Benifits/A law of attraction because she hangs with you/You being a gracious rebound coach for her.
• Why is this good? 

1. You are being honest. Real men don't give a damn bout what people think. So why would a real man ever lie to a woman? Much like sexy is better than hot....... Man is better than "This guy".
2. You have a civil way to end things. Example:

Susy- "Umm Johny why don't you wanna take me out again?" John -"Susy I told you during the makeout that this was a one time thing and you agreed".
Susy- "Oh yeah"
John- "Look we can still hang out and chill, just don't be expecting to make out with me whenever you want. But if something happens it happens."

You can use that exact line on almost any girl. It communicates a few key ideas about yourself imediatly.

• You are still offering your "friendship". You are also communicating that you didn't just purely use her for her body. (or maybe you did.)
• You are showing her how she already agreed to this arrangement, making her the overreactive liar if she freaks out instead of you. 
• You put her in the "freind zone" with possibility of future affection. This shows that you indeed do not need her because you obviously don't really care because you are "in demand". 

    3.  You have started the wheels in her head of. "Oh my gosh this guy is so confident and chill"   (or "oh baby baby I need this man".)

Body Language 

What's the difference between Kramer and Han Solo?

Similarities

• Both male
• Both have body hair. 

Differences 

• Han- Dominant body language. He knows what he's doing and he doesn't give a damn. His movements are slow and calculated. Women would say he "screams sex".
• Kramer- One word to describe his movements, jerky. Shrill crazy voice, talks rapidly is a spaz.
• Han- Assumes all women want him. If they try and put him through crap and there mental games or "tests" he doesn't do that he will walk away. 
• Kramer- No offense Kramer but pretty sure your one of those "Russian Brides" kinda guys. 
• Kramer- His entire personality is funny, he is not intentionally funny.
• Han- Why should Han be funny? Does he need someone else's approval? Hell no he doesn't. Is he funny? Yes he can choose to be funny. If people don't like he doesn't care. 

Please watch the following video and watch for body language, tone, posture etc.

First off I must say Han Solo has a very fine tuned "Bull Shit" detector. Both of these women share two dominate traits with women in the LDS culture. 

1.) They think that there princess's 

2.) They both try to whip Harrison Ford/Men. Both try and manipulate Harrison Ford/Men into proving that "They are in control, and that they are the prize not you." 

What did ford do in both situations? This leads me to one of the core skills in how to get women. 

When you sense all this controll garbage going on I want you to think this. 

"I Don't need to take this Shiz" 

Then walk away. Ford ended up doing both of these lovely ladies. Hell Leah professed her undying love for him while he was about to be frozen. At which point he just replies "I know" not "I love you to" not "Really oh my gosh let me tear up right now". I also must say when the blonde closed her eyes and expected him to kiss her................. he closed the door and insulted her. (I know I know the man is a GOD!) 

          So I need to wrap this up but here is your first homework assignment from me. 

1. Make eye contact with 15 women and hold until they look away. 
2. Make eye contact with 10 women and immediately smile once you make eye contact. 
3. Ask 2 girls for the time, and one hot girl for the time. (lets root out that misconception "she wouldn't give me the time of day")
4. Watch Any old school star wars/indian jones movie and study his body language. Or you can watch Tom Selleck films. 

May your balls continue to grow.

Dr. NCMO lovemaster Jay

Can you honestly tell me your not learning?