Stop Light Pick-up.

THAT JUST HAPPENED!

Friday I was with the libertarian of love and I was a witness to true greatness. We were driving along and we stopped at a red light and one of the foxiest ladies I've ever seen driving a crappy old Ford Taurus pulls up next to us.

We waived at her for about ten seconds. We expected at best she would smile and waive. but no she rolls down her window. I rolled down the window and Libertarian yells "You're a doll." She then said thank you and then the libertarian says "What's your number?"

Then like nobody's business she starts spitting the digits. He writes them down and calls her later that night and set's up a date.

With God as my witness that was the greatest pick-up I've ever seen and it's an inspiration to us all. This woman was lose your membership in the church hot and was just waiting for a ballsy move to be made. As Biggie Smalls once said "throw your hands in the air if you a true playa"

Get out there are get some hot women when you or better yet they least expect it.

Wild Willy

Getting Mormon Men back into the game.

        I will not lie, I've been out of the dating scene for a few months. Sure I made out with a few women (more like girls). But I  have BEEN OUT OF THE REAL GAME! The biggest thing however that keeps men out of the game are these two things.

• You cannot get a dates with women you don't meet 
• You can't get dates with women you friend zone. 
• You can't date women who friend zone you

Yeah I promised 2 yet named 3. This is why..

       If your bitching about me writing 3 points, when I promised 2 you will be eaten up by women. If you can't adapt to your date liking taylor swift, how will you adapt to her ex boy friend dating your ex in order to get even with you. The reason my third bullet point is "You can't date women who friend zone you." is third is because that my friend is what 99% of loser dudes bitch about. 

     "She friend zoned me and I'm so awesome I have been going to golds for over 2 years, my abs look like they are carved out of marble."  

      

       Well guess what for some reason she IS NOT INTERESTED. So you must move on. I'm going back into the game, and I am dreading it.  Mainly because the mormon culture does not gather large groups of attractive women together often. You can ward hop, Gym hop, join the disney movie club at byu idaho, I don't care. You will never find a group of 50 attractive LDS girls with no boyfriends/fiancés/husbands that have no other options. WON'T HAPPEN (if it does call me). So the simple thing to do is. 

Everyday meet women- wherever you can however you can. 

Everyday never come off as friend zone material- Mormons that abide by gospel principles only bang one person in their lifetimes. (and you get to meet up in heaven for eternity so you probably should be rather fond of your soulmate.) What does this mean? You better be 100 % YOU!!! "Well what if I suck?" well if you suck I advice you to not suck. 

Homework 

1. Meet Women
2. Flirt with women
3. Go over the top bold with flirting
4. Meet women

This is Mr. Tim your average guy making the dive back into dating with you.... Signing off

Be Icy

Hello readers my name is Icy E IV, a guest contributor to the Mormon Dating Guru blog.  I am a long-time friend of Dr NCMO Love Master Jay and the rest of the Gurus. Our advice is unique, and I find the most successful way, to date 21^st Century Mormon women. We aren't little puppy-dog RM's who got home from our missions two months ago, bumbling around trying to get engaged by the end of the week. We have all been in "the game" for years: specifically in the Mormon community.

I graduated from BYU and know all about the exceedingly peculiar dating scene there. I now attend a university in the United States where the Mormon dating scene is very different from that in Utah. After having been a member of nearly a dozen singles wards I know all about the social dynamics of dating in one.

Today I want to talk about being "icy." What does it mean to be icy? Being icy means that you can stay cool regardless of what kind of crazy stuff may be happening around you. There are two main scenarios when it is paramount to remain icy: when approaching, and when being tested by chicks.

APPROACHING. When a man approaches a woman it is natural for him to be nervous. All you 21 year old guys may think you’re experts at picking up women because you spent two years talking to strangers, but approaching women is different because your ego gets invested in the situation—trust me. Don't be a pushover who gets hurt when he is rejected. Although it’s easier said than done you need to remove your fear of rejection. Before you approach, realize that “YOU ARE THE MAN” and if a woman rejects you it's only because she doesn't know how awesome you are yet! Don't get butt hurt, there are hundreds of thousands of ladies that want to get scooped up by you. When you are icy, and don't care what the outcome will be, you will have major success. You gotta be icy.

BEING TESTED. When you're in a relationship, your gf will want to get to know you by experiencing a range of emotions. She will naturally test you, and one way that she will do this is by acting entirely out of character (such as freaking out at you) to see how you respond. Don't be alarmed, this is all inherent in all females. Be icy. Don't try to talk her through the situation. Any input WHATSOEVER will only affect the situation negatively. After she has gone on her rampage, just say in a cool tone "are you done?" You've demonstrated that you can be icy and put up with her crap. Women love to jabber and they just need to get all their emotions out. By being icy and simply listening to what she has to say she'll calm down and want you worse than ever. Be authentic about it too. If you really engage in listening to what is on her mind she will love you even more.

Being icy means that you are a self-actualized individual and that you don’t need approval from anyone else. This is the most attractive personality. And you can learn to be icy. Too many people seeks relationships as a source of approval. Love yourself first and everyone else will love you too. Yes, I'll say that again, love yourself first and everyone else will love you too. 

A good example of being icy is shown in the clip below. Arnold Schwarzenegger gets hit by an egg but he continues on his path like nothing happened. When a woman is testing you, brush off the crap thrown at you and continue on like nothing happened. She'll see the strength of your character right before her eyes and want you badly.

Icy E IV 

The Tinder Formula

I’m writing this article to piggy back off of what my man Dr. NCMO Love Master Jay wrote a few weeks back about tinder. Since reading his article I’ve taken his advice and tweeked it just a bit creating a formula that I’ve had a lot of success with if you want to get dates from Tinder.

First – Create your profile follow the advice given by my man Dr. NCMO Love Master Jay.

Second – Start swiping word of advice be liberal at first with swiping right this will give you more opportunites to hone your game, you don’t need to swipe right on the corn feed women or the 40 year-old creepers but just don’t only swipe right on the mega hotties. Even Babe Ruth didn’t go straight to the big leagues.

Opener – I’ve been trying several openers and found that one will get a response 90% of the time it’s used.

 “Are your eyes always that sparkly or is that just some fancy camera work ;)”

For some reason they just love this. It appeals to their vanity and you are also making them qualify themselves. You can come up with any number of ways to get a response but this one has been MONEY! They will usually respond with either something like “No fancy camera work :)” or “Everyone always tells me my eyes are beautiful” or “Must be the camera”.
 If they respond that that it’s natural and they are conceded. Say well you’ve got beautiful eyes or some bull crap to that effect. Just keep playing on their vanity.
If they respond its camera work say something like, “to bad”, then give a follow-up question based on something interesting in their pictures.

There are a lot of lines similar to this, they follow a similar formula compliment, with a question to make them qualify themselves or get flirty. Your job is to help them get playful. Try different things and creative or your game will get stale and you’ll end up all alone on Saturday night playing World of Warcraft.  The line given above is just a jumping off point.

         A good follow-up question to this is: What do you like to do when you’re not creeping on guys using tinder? This question will get information for you about their interest and also make them a little more relaxed by calling them out as a creeper when they probably kind of think you are.
Then find some common interest or just suggest an activity and chances are you’ll get a number. During the summer suggesting a baseball game is great, or any sporting event is usually a good one, also if you know how to fish women usually love this, you just have to suggest something! Also trying the lets makeout is usually not going to work unless you’ve found some girl that is bound to give VD or you want to end up like Manti Teo.

          Using this I have gotten numbers in as little as FIVE messages and usually in less than ten.  I’d say follow-up quickly with 2 days after receiving the number and get yourself some lovin!
The bottom line with tinder is just like meeting women in real life, YOU NEED TO BE BALLSY AND CONFIDENT. If you aren’t they are going to figure you for some skinny-jean wearing pussy, and if they want a pussy they’re a lesbo, and lesbians are gross.

Happy Hunting 

Wild Willy